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[Evil joy]

Hey guys, I hope you're doing well! I was just wondering how you guys keep motivated not only in game but in life. I've been struggling in life lately with massive burn outs, moments of massive depression. I'm trying to get back into playing Alora again as it use to bring some sense of happiness. I've been playing since late 2017 and then made this account in the begging of 2018.

 

Anyway, I hope every single one of you are doing well. Keep getting them gains! I was just looking for any helpful advice. 

 

- I love you all!

[GIM SSS]

Hey there Evil Joy!

Let me just start off by saying I am in no way a professional on this matter, these are just my opinions and what help me. Ultimately you know yourself best and if you think you need to talk to someone I urge you to do it

With that being said something that I find that helps me is trying not to look with such a short sight, both in game and IRL. I can say that there are days that suck or won't go your way, and there will be days where you feel ontop of the world. What I mean by this is look down the road, which admittedly is sometimes hard to do. I guarantee that if you could look back 2-3 years you'd never imagine to be where you are now. Sometimes it's hard to lose sight of this in moments of being down.

For the game I HIGHLY reccomend joining a clan or a discord where you can find more people to chill with and hangout. Playing a game in a VC with others can do wonders and make the grind of the game that much more enjoyable!

Ultimately do what makes you happy and if you do get back into it I hope to see you around in game! :)

[Moe]

GIM SSS couldn't have said it any better, keep your head up & take each day as it is. Set small goals for the day even if it seems minor or not "important" just things YOU want to do. You will start enjoying them more, but yes make sure to talk to someone IRL if you feel you can't get out of the mood whether a friend, family, professional. Also don't look at talking to someone as something embarrassing, it is a perfectly fine & normal thing everyone does.